Love is not something that you can put chains on and throw into a lake. That's called Houdini. Love is liking someone a lot.

-Jack Handey

Sorry, I needed some inspiration.

Further more:
on the topic of the blasphemous lie we call love at the tender age of 19:
Truth is mother fucker, you better hope you don't find the love of your life at 19.
In-fact, I personally hope that i find that person when I'm i dont know, give or take 25-26, because i have a lot of life to live before I can worry about love. I have a world to love, and perhaps one day ill find someone to love the world with but for now, I just wanna love a six pack and a ranger game, packed out raves and lazer beams, being the one girl in a room who doesn't wanna look the same, speaking my mind and not giving a damn, and figuring out that the whole world is a scam.
Im not knocking on Love, i'm knocking on lies. we have so much life to live and loving someone this young can only lead to death a demise. There is nothing wrong with loving someone at 19, but being in love or better yet, beLIEving that you are in love at this age is absurd and a rarity beyond my understanding. For all those believers I support your spirit but really people, wake up.
There are much more important things to love in life right now, then being in love with the idea, of being in love.
Love the life you're living today because when you fall in love tomorrow, it might all be over.